I Have Become My Grandmother

My Finnish grandmother used to read the obituaries every morning. One day I asked her why and she replied "To see if my friends are alive" in her strange accent. A few days ago I searched for a friend who I hadn't heard from in months only to learn he passed away a couple of weeks ago. As I reflect, I realize how fragile life is and you have to say the important things to people around you because you may never have another chance. Life changes so quickly and one needs to grab for the golden ring every time it comes into view. Another realization is the need to let go of the little annoyances and only dealing with the serious issues.